Sunday, December 28, 2008

The Art of Blogging Using Google Image Search


Things come to mind that make me want to blog. Curiosities - things that hit close to home - musings....

Entertainment.

I'll ponder over my keyboard about the topic(s) I want to cover. If I get stuck - I do a google image search.

This is like the rabbit hole for me.

Depending on your security settings - simple words can bring up the most interesting pics.


This was found during a lesbian wonder woman search:

Mother Lode of Lesbian Culture at the Special Collections and University Archives at the University of Oregon in Eugene. No. 9.24.2008. 163.
Wednesday, September 24th, 2008
A Lesbian Archivist Discovers A Hidden Literary Treasure in Southern Oregon. She found a “mother lode of lesbian culture, tucked quietly away in the stacks of unprocessed collections and buried deep in the hills of Southern Oregon.”

Friday, December 26, 2008


Queer Womyns Speed Dating Jan. 21

http://mayrmakenna.com/
QUEER WOMYNS SPEED DATING IS BACK AT THE BROADWAY!!! Doors open at 6 p.m. - Mixer at 6:30 - Dating at 7 p.m.
This round we're limiting the group to 24 daters.
Dates will be 3 minutes long.
Complimentary snacks will be provided.
Wine & beer available for purchase.
*Tipping your servers really impresses the ladies*
There will be a musical intermission in lieu of smaller, several breaks.
I am thrilled that singer/songwriter pianist Mayr Makenna has accepted our invitation to perform for us!
CDs available online or at QSD!
Pre-registration required. Cost: $25
$2 off when you bring at least two cans of food for Food For Lane County.
Please mail your check/money order/cash to:
THE BROADWAY ATTN: LAURA MCNAMARA
200 W. BROADWAY
EUGENE, OR 97401

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

"healthy multiplicity"


Some people who experience themselves as being two completely different people in one body—not just in the sense that they sometimes feel masculine and sometimes feel feminine—also use the term "bigender" to describe themselves in the event that the two people are of different genders, one male-identified and one female-identified. In this situation, at times when the person who is of the opposite gender to the body sex is dominant, they may experience similar feelings to a transsexual.
This phenomenon is sometimes seen as a kind of healthy multiplicity, that is to say, where a person has experiences similar to those described in dissociative identity disorder (also known as multiple personality disorder), but is able to come to terms with it, usually with the two people being aware of each other and cooperative, and does not wish to be seen as having an illness.

BiGeNdEr


From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Bigender (bi+gender) is a tendency to move between masculine and feminine gender-typed behaviour depending on context, expressing a distinctly "en femme" persona and a distinctly "en homme" persona, feminine and masculine respectively. It is a subset of transgender. It is recognized by the APA as a subset of the transgendered group.[1] A 1999 survey conducted by the San Francisco Department of Public Health observed that, among the transgendered community, less than 3% of genetic males and less than 8% of genetic females identified as bigender.


While an androgynous person retains the same gender-typed behaviour across situations, the bigendered person consciously or unconsciously changes their gender-role behaviour from primarily masculine to primarily feminine, or vice versa.


Bigender and sexual orientation
It might seem that a bigender identity must go with a bisexual identity but gender identity and sexual orientation are independent. It is possible to be bigender and not bisexual, or bisexual but not bigender.


For some bigenders, labels like gay, lesbian or bisexual can seem less relevant or satisfactory due to their focus on physiological sex. Some might prefer terms that refer to gender (see Gynephilia and androphilia) while others might prefer to not specify a sexual orientation at all.

Since bigender is a gender-related term, not an erotic one, a bigender can of course be asexual.


Bigender in popular culture
While performers such as David Bowie and Boy George are known for combining masculine and feminine aspects, performers who switch between a primarily masculine or feminine image, such as Eddie Izzard and Annie Lennox, better fit the bigender label. Crossdressing is not always related to gender identity, however.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

JaDeD is FaDiN FaSt


At what point have we shut ourselves off from our needs? We need to love and be loved. Why is it bad to need? Some of my closest beings are beginning to give themselves permission to NEED.

Nothing wrong w/ that!

I had my girlfriend apologize pre-emptively if she came across needy tonite. (I will address that she is now being addressed as my girlfriend - at a later.....address - sorry I had to run w/ that)


When did begin to feed that negative bullshit to ourselves? What happened that made us so Jaded.


Was it age 24?


Was it our first big breakup?


Was it because we became lazy?


It is up to us to kick the habit.


This close being of mine - she's not jaded - she's beautiful and open and willing - she's just using the word JADED to keep her defenses up.


How do you know how you feel if you stay numb?


Wake up gurl - go get HIM!!!